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I read stories of couples who chatted online for months before flying from California to Georgia, Michigan to Washington, Ohio rwady Peru, Cyprus to Lebanon to see each other for the first time. Maybe it was the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon —that effect where, when you first learn about something, you see it everywhere—but suddenly I learned that lots of people I knew had this same story.

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My childhood neighbor from New Jersey, recently divorced, met her Syracuse boyfriend through the phone game Wordfeud. He was a software developer living in Australia. They messaged online for over two years before he booked a flight to meet her in Maryland and eventually moved into an apartment with her in Brooklyn. Online-dating companies are privy to the fact that people use them for travel.

Last year, Tinder launched a paid feature called Passport that lets people swipe on members anywhere in the world. And Scruff, a dating app for gay men, has a section called Scruff Venture that helps users coordinate travel plans and connect with host members in foreign countries. To me, someone who hates first dates, this sounds great.

I like the idea adfice going on a date with someone after you womann to know them.

Another benefit of long-distance online dating is that flirting starts in brain space, not physical space. Four years ago, she says got fed up with the men in San Francisco, where she lived.

She found them too distracted, work-obsessed, and unwilling to commit. An introspective introvert, she found she liked dating like this since it let her form an emotional connection with men before the complications of a physical meet-up. One explanation suggested by his work is that long-distance daters tend to idealize their relationships.

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But having the distance could open up new relationship opportunities. She saw him in person for the first time in the basement of a teahouse, where he was sitting in lotus position, waiting for her, meditating. But Ben never had. They made awkward conversation. She knows this because often the ghosted partner will write a breakup post on Reddit begging for a second chance.

Yet of the nine nevermets I talked to who did eventually meet up, almost all describe to me a feeling of connecting the dots.

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It might not necessarily reflect reality. Meanwhile, his girlfriend would stay seated. When they finally met at an airport in Brazil a week before we spoke, they kissed and felt instantly connected.

This is common among nevermets—height is especially hard to judge over video. Yet however surprising or uncomfortable a nevermet first meeting might be, the cost of flaking is at least a plane ticket. But on their third date—during which Ben blindfolded Mikka, massaged her feet, and hand-fed her chocolate and mango—they connected and have been dating ever since.

Now Mikka flies to Portland to stay with him most weeks. Yet just as traveling a long distance might incentivize couples to give each other a chance—like Mikka did with Ben—so too does it act as a hurdle in staying together. But then, neither is finding an instant physical connection with someone on a first date only to discover weeks later that you have nothing to talk about.

But more and more people are willing to go as far as it takes.